Man I never thought I’d be dating a Greek man, let alone an Alpha man! I specifically did not want to (I hate being stereotypical), but I must admit I secretly longed for the Phirst Pham joint license plate (or at least a keychain!). It’s funny how life turns out… Happy Founders’ Day baby! 💗💚💛💗💚 #instacollage #phirstpham #lylelove #phirstphamlove #skeephi #happyfoundersday #aphia #0608
Happy Birthday to my childhood bully, I mean, sister! Hahaha When we were kids we fought like crazy, but only bc I wanted to be cool like you and hang out with you and your cool friends. But at the end of the day we always had each other’s back and we still do. I love you sisser! We shall celebrate together soon! Have a great day!!!!!! 😊😊😊😊😘😘😘😘🎉🎉🎉🎉🎁🎁🎁🎁🎂🎂🎂🎂 PS - check your mail
olivia pope is not a “side chick” a “jump off” or a “mistress” and calling her one is so dated. fitz been done with mellie. since he first laid eyes on olivia. it’s so interesting to me that these “mistress” conversations never interrogate the archaic institution of marriage and christian/puritan/victorian/capitalist morality which frames this triangular relationship as two women competing over a man, who is the prize. but olivia isn’t competing. she is already both the winner and the prize. her character doesn’t need the “benefits” or validation of marriage. she has her own career, her own money, every man who crosses her path falls in love with her, she has power, prestige and influence, all things that the institution of marriage is supposed to confer on wives through their husbands. she isn’t living vicariously through the power or empowerment of another. she’s transcended marriage and is on some other ish. her own divine pleasure, desire and passion for it’s own sake. y’all are putting old wine into new wine bags. olivia is #newwine#winningalltheeverything#scandal
quote from Christa Bell | creator of SHEism: The Woman Worship Way
TRUTH!!! some people love to forget who Olivia is.
I get so annoyed when people call her a hoe! Cheating is cheating. Cheating is wrong. They are cheaters. But cheating does not necessarily make you a hoe.
My definition of a hoe is someone who sleeps around. She and Fitz may have a love-triangle type dysfunctional thing going on, but that does not make her a hoe! She has only been with three people in the three seasons (all men she was dating/seeing regularly) and I am pretty sure 80-90% of those being so judgmental have been with more ppl in that time frame (3-5 yrs with flashbacks).
PLUS, let’s be honest, the Mellie/Fitz marriage was a sham to begin with. It was a political arranged marriage that neither of them truly wanted for the right reasons. They didn’t meet and fall madly in love and then grow apart. This was all a master plan created by Big Jerry and Mellie happily played right along for her own personal gain.
I am not a fan of cheating, but Fitz is a prisoner in his marriage. And Olivia is not a hoe. The end.
But Olivia could be sleeping with ten men per night, and she’d still not be a whore.
The reason she’s not a whore is because there’s nobody paying her to sleep with them. She’s a single woman who can actually sleep with whom she pleases. The problem isn’t Olivia, the problem is the puritanical way that women who sleep with multiple men are labelled. It’s us, not them.